Grief Support Services

Grief Support Services
Living with grief: myths and realities
Common reactions to grief
Steps to Survival
Am I crazy?
What is most helpful as we grieve?
What can I do?
Helpful Links for Grief Support
Talking with children about death
Common reactions to grief

Physical and mental reactions:  
  • Sleep disturbances/dreams
  • Weight and appetite changes
  • Weakness and fatigue
  • Deep sighing
  • Decreased resistance to illness
  • Restlessness/impatience
  • Rapid heart beat
  • Increased blood pressure
  • Tightness in chest
  • Difficulty swallowing
  • Pit in stomach
  • Decision-making impaired
  • Concentration difficulties
  • Forgetfulness
  • Sense of peace
Emotional reactions:  
  • Shock
  • Disbelief
  • Numbness
  • Confusion
  • Sadness/depression
  • Guilt
  • Yearning/loneliness
  • Fears/anxiety
  • Feeling of being lost
  • Anger
  • Emancipation
  • Relief
Behavioral reactions:  
  • Crying
  • Preoccupation
  • Apathy regarding activities
  • Decreased activity
  • Detachment from surroundings
  • Disorientation to time and place
  • Withdrawal from friends
  • Seeking solitude
Spiritual reactions:  
  • Re-evaluation of beliefs
  • Anger at God
  • Distance/closeness with God
  • Difficulty attending place of worship
Social changes:  
  • Role and identify change
  • Change in socio/economic status
  • Need for rituals to get through the day
  • Geographical relocation - new neighborhood
  • Family conflict and disintegration